Podcast Excerpt:
“If the request is “I want a promotion,” it’s like – stop it there. It’s like, okay, so you want more money, you want more, like, fine. If instead it is, “Hey, I enjoy working here. I’m really excited about the mission. I would like to grow into a manager’s role so I can contribute even better. What do I have to do? What areas am I missing and how else can I start to put in time that I can grow into that role so I could be considered in the future, and I’d appreciate any feedback or even a weekly session on it.”
The first one is just a gimme gimme gimme, it’s like, I deserve this, I want this. The second one is “I would like to contribute more meaningfully to this entire group, but I might have some blind spots I’m not sure of. Help guide me to what I need so that I can put in the effort and grow to what I need to be.” You are stating your intention to make sure that you’re seen but you’re also then following it up with a bit of “what do I need to do” to “how can I put the effort in?”
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Guest Bio:
Trevor Alexander is an 18-year UI/UX veteran, startup design leader, and the creator of The Ugly Design Career—a platform and newly released book that challenges conventional design advice and teaches creatives how to build truly unbreakable careers. Known for his candid, no-nonsense approach, Trevor helps designers shift their focus from pretty portfolios to what actually creates opportunities: relationships, business value, and real-world impact.
Over nearly two decades, Trevor has played pivotal roles in high-growth startups, bringing a blend of product thinking, craft, and strategic insight to every team he’s served. His work centers on helping designers stay relevant by mastering the fundamentals, understanding how businesses operate, and telling compelling, outcome-driven stories through their case studies.
A strong advocate for generalization, adaptability, and continuous self-driven growth, Trevor encourages designers to expand their skill sets, collaborate across functions, and “build, build, build” to advance their careers. His mission is to empower designers to not just design better interfaces—but to make themselves indispensable to the businesses they serve.
Follow his work and the movement at The Ugly Design Career.
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Tracie Edwards
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